Space makes the heart grow fonder vs. Out of sight out of mind

Ok so I was sitting in algebra class and todays topic popped in my head. There are two very commenly used saying both used in the same situation. The first one is out of sight out of mind. What it means is that when your away from the one you love or a friend or anything and you cant see them then their no longer in your thoughts. So if you see someone else then whatever, go for it, because you dont think about them when your away.

Then theres the saying Space makes the heart grow fonder, meaning that when you far away from your lover or friend it makes you want to be with them more. Like something just makes you yearn to be with them again. Or you begin to miss the things you could be doing if you were with them. In a way you just forget all the bad things about them because you miss the good too much.

I've never been in a serious relationship or a non serious relationship that mattered. So im really not sure which works when your deep in love, but I know that my dad works on a ship and when hes away I miss him and forget when he comes back the rules are strickter and stuff. Its almost like I miss it. And Samira lives far away but that dosent mean I forgot she exsisted. Same with family. You dont see them a lot but you still love them. There fore I believe in space makes the heart grow founder.

Today I learned about what I am. The legal term for me is an "African american". Im a united states sitison and im dark skinned therefore: African american. But today my dad and grandpa were telling me about our history. My Grandpa is what you call mgaziga or a person from comoro. My other Grandpa is from Goa which is in india! So im indian! I didnt even know that. My grandmas people (on my moms side) were originally from south africa. They were in the zulu tribe. And then my grandma on my dads side is what you call a "pure comorian". Which is something to be pround of supposedly. Its kind of like harry potter. If your not pure you hardley count. Anyways now you know some stuff about me.

song of the day:
pocket full of sunshine

quote of the day:
Are you ready to give up your dreams? (referring to him wanting to be a basketball star)
Shes right here in front of me and I dont need anything else. Nathen scott (one tree hill). Now that my kind of man right there. :)